Monday, May 12, 2008

Bad news week...

You could say it's been a suck of a week where bad news about friends is concerned... one friend diagnosed 7 years ago with cancer - she's had a mammoth fight - admitted to hospital for emergency radiation treatment... then admitted to the hospice... waiting to see if she can get palliative care are home... only 52 years old... another family friend diagnosed with an extremely aggressive cancer... told it's only a matter of weeks... the tears have been flowing!!!!


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I came across this poem on a site called Susan Weed's Wise Woman forum, and thought I'd share it...

I WILL WEAR PINK!

When I am a Breast Cancer survivor I will wear pink.
I will wear pink for my mother-in-law who received no treatment because the doctors thought she was too old to receive treatment, and
who looked lovely in pink.

I will wear pink for my friends who lost their health, their hair and their youth in their struggle to fight breast cancer.

I will wear pink for the non-survivors who seem more comfortable with this watered down color of the blood lost while fighting this terrible illness. Maybe the white of their optimism mixes with it.

I will wear pink to soften the lines and the hardness that has come in my face.

I will wear pink to remind me that Spring always comes and flowers bloom and I have time to change and bloom again myself.

I will wear pink when my chest aches where my breast is missing and my heart aches for missing friends and I will remember the miracle of my survival.

I will wear pink when I stand in for my deceased friends at their children's wedding and I will remember their beauty at their own wedding.

I will wear pink when I visit the graves of those whose bodies gave out before their spirit was ready.

I will wear pink when I race for the cure and speak against dollars wasted on the useless testing on animals whose bodies are so different from humans that they are poisoned by medicine that helps humans and cured by medicine that is poison to cancer survivors.

I will wear pink when I listen to the names of those who have lost the fight with cancer and celebrate with those of us who still survive.

When I am a breast cancer survivor I will wear pink.



and another one:

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you can't help but think about mortality and weep for the sisters that are losing their battle!!!

And looking around YouTube I found this song, Standing all the way pink ribbon original by Rachael Chatoor - for all the sisters.......




Monday, May 5, 2008

1960 - a time of transition

1960... it was the end of one era, the beginning of another. I was 5 years old, I'd just started school, my world was about to expand dramatically, and television was having an impact on society - there was a whole other world out there... it was wondrous...

It was the start of the "Golden Era of Television". We were influenced greatly by America and programmes were a 'mixed bag' - from the 'perfect', cutesy, American families the likes of Father Knows Best, The Adventures of Ozzie and Harriet and Leave it to Beaver, the zaniness of Lucille Ball and Phyllis Diller to the larrikan Aussie humour of Graham Kennedy and Bert Newton... they were worlds apart - but we were eager for entertainment and we lapped it all up hungrily.

In January 1960 the "logies" were in their second year and people couldn't wait to vote for their favourite shows. Here's some of the winners (ironic that the awards were yet to be televised!!!)

Most Popular Personality: Graham Kennedy

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Program Of The Year: 77 Sunset Strip
(I would start to enjoy this as I moved towards my teens and that unchartered territory called sexuality!!!)

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6 o’clock rock with Johnny O’Keefe and Bandstand with Brian Henderson were the popular music shows, and people couldn't get enough...


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But I was only 5 at the time, so here are just a few of the shows that I loved...





Circus Boy - I loved all the antics of the circus animals - and I had a crush on Corky (later we'd know him as Mickey Dolenz from The Monkees - yep, an even bigger crush then!!!)...









Mr. Squiggle - I was amazed at what could be drawn with Mr. Squiggle's pencil nose... I could have watched him all day!!!









Lassie - what more can I say... you needed a 'hankie' to watch the movies, and you dreamt about having a loyal mate like Lassie and going on many an adventure!!!!








Adventures of Rin-tin-tin - of course, American 'westerns' were really big - Gunsmoke, Sugarfoot, Rawhide - the list goes on... so "Rin-tin-tin" was going to be a big hit - another incredible dog... I loved "Rinny"...







and my favourite birthday present... my Annie Oakley outfit!!!!


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This is only similar to the outfit I had (very patriotic American hey)... mine was green with yellow 'trim' (obviously made for the Australian market!!) - sorry, there's no photo of me wearing it... cameras and film weren't something you always had on hand in those days - well, not if you were working class anyway!!!!


Of course, news was popular - we got to see what was happening in the world- there was so much happening politically - but I wasn't old enough to understand the changes that were taking place just yet... I was just enjoying being a child - and who wouldn't... me mum was the head cashier at Luna Park and the Palais Theatre... the things I got to do and see - it was a wonderful time - it was a great life for a child!!!!


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but my world was expanding and the best was yet to come...
it was the beginning of the 60s - there was change in the air - and I was starting to learn and grow... this decade was going to hold rich and fertile learning experiences for all...





to be continued.....

Friday, May 2, 2008

motherhood doesn't define us...

I came across a couple of photos of me mum in the 1950s so I thought I’d share them… they seemed appropriate after my 50s post…


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I was reading a friend’s blog recently, and she has an extremely poignant post on mother’s day and motherhood which prompted me to include my thoughts on the topic.

When I was growing up the prevailing attitude was that young women wouldn’t be in the workforce for long… it was expected they would get married young and have children (always plural!!) – so no need for a career – (the post-war years added more pressure on women with their POPULATE OR PERISH paranoia!!!)
"Denied economic independence, unable to control their fertility adequately, and always aware of the reprobation which awaits the rebel, none but a handful of Australian women has had the opportunity to do any more than submit to living out their lives as dutiful wives and bountiful mothers; and having no alternatives and wanting some share of human happiness, they have accepted and enjoyed this as best they could." Anne Summers, "Damned whores and gods police"

Women were encouraged to believe that motherhood defined them as women… hey, sounds like now!!!! – we still hear those questions from all quarters – for young women - “when are you having children”, for older women it’s “how many children do you have”… that assumption – you’re female, so you must have offspring - so frustrating having to explain yourself all the time… as though it’s ‘freakish’!!!!

No matter what you do, whatever your reasons for not having children – there’s still an attitude that “you can’t possibly be a whole woman without children… you’re not complete…” - guess I don’t need to tell you I disagree!!!!

Whether by choice, because of fertility problems, or due to loss, the ‘sisters’ I know without children are extremely fulfilled individuals – beautiful, amazing, whole women!!! When will the blinkered perceptions change – when will women be accepted for themselves, without the ‘extension’ of partner or child – that will always only be for some!!!


And let’s face it – there has to be a limit to human habitation and the consequent pressure put on ‘the mother’… ‘she’s’ not faring well with the population now, the damage and destruction that’s been caused already!!!!

“Mother’s day” appears to be about making money rather than celebrating women as mother’s – seems to me it’s one big advertising and profit-making free-for-all.

And really, shouldn’t women be respected all year round??? Crimes and atrocities are committed against women every day of the year – I’d love to be able to celebrate the end of violence against women!!!! But alas……

Monday, April 28, 2008

Oh no.... my holidays are over!!!!



Well, it's back to work tomorrow... what happened to those 2 weeks??? Can't believe they're already over...


I'm going back a 'new' woman... sort of... well, I've had my hair cut, I get my new glasses next week, I'm revitalized (but that won't last for long!!!!) but I'm definitely not 'rarin' to go'!!!!


I got hardly anything that I intended done... where does the time go????


Guess I watched a lot of trashy television, spent time with my feline and canine companions, read some, ate a lot, drank hardly any alcohol (a nice change!!!), but I did smoke a lot!!!!


The main reason for this post is to alert people to two campaigns by the "GetUp" mob...


if you're passionate about reconciliation, you may like to buy this song and send a message to the government...





and here's a climate change ad that GetUp are trying to get onto television...




If you enjoyed my last post on the 50s, stay tuned for the next one on the 60s... a radical, exciting time to be alive!!!

Monday, April 21, 2008

REFLECTIONS ON AN ERA... or, the way we were

21st April, 1955, my birthday – it was a time of right-wing extremism – a desperate attempt at maintaining a reactionary but dying political and cultural conservatism - Menzies (british wannabe and staunch monarchist) and the Liberal party were in power and catholicism was the major religion. This is a brief ‘snapshot’ into the decade surrounding my birth – the 1950s – a time of incredible change.

World war 2 had formally ended in 1945 but it's inherent social upheaval was still affecting life in general. The absence of men from the workforce allowed women work outside of the home - it gave them a taste of independence - a place within society - self-worth. With the return of the servicemen, women were being encouraged - by whatever means - fired, guilt-tripped, threatened to go back to the home and be good wives and mothers, and give men back 'their' jobs!!! And with the Korean war ceasefire agreement having only been signed in 1953, even more men were returning from the front, and there was a perceived idea that life would get back to 'normal'.

“The immediate response to the end of the war was one of delirious joy and relief. People poured into the streets when peace was announced to sing, dance, cry and to kiss and hug absolute strangers. Peace brought an end to agonizing tensions, to shortages, to the separations, and the long hours of work. The urgency of returning to “normality” gripped many like a fever. There was a boom in babies and marriages.

For most women the blessings in the years that followed the war were mixed indeed. The trend to shift many more women in paid work into the textile and clothing industries started before the war ended, and this continued. Women who had been metalworkers and ironworkers in aircraft and munitions factories found that their man’s jobs and man’s pays disappeared. “Rosie the Riveters” went back to waiting on tables at not quite pre-war levels of pay. “Equal pay” was reduced to 75% of the male rate.

Many of the comprehensive full-day nurseries and other child care centres which had appeared during the war disappeared along with federal government funding for such projects. Some women found themselves widowed on inadequate pensions or the companions of severely war-shocked men, with little community understanding of or support for their problems.” (Joyce Stephens, “A history of International Women’s Day – the 50s & 60s”)

Women were being expected to give up their new found place in society.... they wanted women to go back to their previous lives of subservience and drudgery... after having tasted this freedom and camaraderie...


they were expected to go back to being second-class citizens - back to mind-numbing boredom, household slavery!!!!



women weren't going to give up their gains so easily - being a 'doormat' no longer held the same appeal for most women - the fight for equality was gaining momentum!!!!

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Contraception was a volatile issue… “the pill” wasn’t available yet - Margaret Sanger, founder of the American Birth Control League (eventually becoming Planned Parenthood) was fighting for research into. and production of, the pill, receiving funding for the major part of the research from Katharine Dexter McCormick. Common forms of contraception in the 50s were that ever unreliable withdrawal method, condoms, cervical caps, douches and not much more. With no free, safe, legal abortion, backyard abortion was widespread, and with it came its associated complications, such as incomplete abortion, sepsis, hemorrhage, and damage to internal organs. While those responsible for the deaths and mutilations were being allowed to get away with their torturous practices, women continued to suffer and die. Women were getting angry… they wanted action!!!!




Homophobia was rampant at the time... "While the 1920s onwards saw the emergence of a thriving underground camp scene in the major cities, the 1950s witnessed another serious crackdown against male homosexuality in Australia. Again, this was part of a process of reinforcing the nuclear family, this time in response to the social liberalisation that had occurred during World War II. There was a sharp increase in the number of people charged and convicted for homosexual activities, and there is strong evidence that police were actively involved in entrapment of homosexual men. A special squad targeting homosexuality was set up in the Victorian police, and the NSW police superintendent labelled homosexuality "the greatest social menace facing Australia" (Rachel Morgan, "In depth: homophobia in Australia").


Binge drinking and alcoholism were rife amongst working-class men – the six o’clock swill was in force in Victoria from 1916 until 1966 so as soon as they finished work men went to the pub and got really pissed up until 6 o’clock – and of course, with extreme drunkenness came violence against women and children!!!! There’s another post item here too.



Marijuana
was under siege yet again – hemp was used for canvas, rope, cloth – companies stood to earn more with the development of nylon so they needed to outlaw the competition - DuPont and William Randolph Hearst both played a role in the criminalization of marijuana. Mandatory sentencing and increased punishment were enacted when the United States Congress passed the Boggs Act of 1952 and the Narcotics Control Act of 1956. The acts made a first time marijuana possession offense a minimum of two to ten years with a fine up to $20,000; (this attitude to marijuana of course spread to Australia and Britain); however, in 1970, the United States Congress repealed mandatory penalties for marijuana offenses.


The Cold War was in full swing; McCarthyism and anti-Communist ‘sentiment’ and ‘fear’ were at an all-time high – the “red scare” was used quite successfully by Menzies who had been re-elected in 1954 at the height of the Petrov Affair – and Australians were ‘brainwashed’ by the “reds under the beds” campaign.

“During the 1950s, politics of all kinds were played out against the background of extreme bigotry and a dwindling democratic practice. Attempts were made not only to ban the Communist Party, but to give the government powers to declare who was or was not a communist, with the onus of proof on the accused. It was a time which has been described by radicals and conservatives alike as one of hysterical witch-hunting during which anti-communism was used to smother political dissent or to blacken opponents, whatever their real persuasion.” (Joyce Stephens )


The White Australia Policy was losing support but, as with most things, abolition was a long time coming – it was enacted as the Immigration Restriction Act in 1901 – it was defunct by 1973 and in 1975 the Racial Discrimination Act made racially based selection criteria illegal.

The following excerpt from a paper by Sara Waugh at the University of Omaha differs a tad from the official version but the sentence in heavy italics (my emphasis) makes more interesting reading!!
“The White Australia Policy began to disintegrate during the second World War. Australia requested that only white soldiers be sent for their protection, but the United States refused the request and sent only mixed racial troops. Australia was forced to allow the soldiers into the country in order to have protection from Japan. In 1949, Australia passed laws allowing the refugees who had married Australians and Japanese war-brides to remain in the country. In 1957, those people of non-European ethnicity who had lived in Australia for fifteen years were allowed citizenship, and in 1958 a migration act was passed which made it easier to gain citizenship and got rid of the dictation test. In 1966, the fifteen year requirement for citizenship for non-Europeans was lifted and they were allowed the same five year requirement as Europeans.”



Jedda was released in 1955 and was a landmark movie for a number of reasons – it was the last movie made by Australian filmmaker Charles Chauvel, the first to star two Aboriginal actors (Robert Tudawali and Ngarla Kunoth) in the leading roles, and it was also the first Australian film shot in colour.





Of course, the status and treatment of the indigenous population was appalling at this time – they weren’t even eligible to vote!!! You might like to check out the Koori History website – it has a really good historical timeline, or find out about Jessie Street, a suffragist, feminist and human rights campaigner who fought for Aboriginal rights.


The Great Australian Dream (and it was only ever a dream for my parents - and pretty much everyone else I knew) was being touted – home ownership (the 1/4 acre block, Hills Hoist and all the mod cons) was the answer to everyone’s dream so they told us… and of course we needed houses to bring up all those children we were going to have because we were being encouraged to “populate or perish” - consequently a massive immigration programme was launched – between 1947 and 1950 200,000 migrants and refugees arrived in the country, with 1 million migrants arriving during the 50s.

And this was it... the great Australian dream!!!


That spawn of the devil – Rock & Roll – was making its way into the Australian culture. This of course led on to juvenile delinquency, immorality and debauchery!!! A report by Dr. Keith Moore from the School of Humanities and Human Services, Queensland University of Technology entitled “Bodgies, widgies and moral panic in Australia 1955-1959” makes extremely interesting reading – here are just a few excerpts…

“In August 1955, the Sydney Sun-Herald warned that the rock and roll ‘dance music craze’ that was sweeping America would soon reach Australia. Alerting readers about the ‘hysterical … abandon which characterize[d] its primitive rhythmic beat’, the feature warned that the music was ‘a contributing factor’ in juvenile delinquency and banned by police in a number of United States communities (Sun-Herald, 28 August 1955).

As rock and roll erupted across Australia, the public’s alarm over teenage delinquency escalated, especially because many
bodgie gang members dressed similarly to the rock and roll singers and embraced rock and roll music. In September 1956, just as Elvis Presley’s Heartbreak Hotel reached the top of the hit parades, Sydney’s first rock and roll riot occurred following the screening of Rock around the Clock. Wild dancing in the street took place, with those defiantly dancing outside police headquarters charged with offensive and indecent behaviour (Melbourne Herald, 22 September 1956).

To the country’s moralists, Elvis Presley was ‘Satan personified’ as his ‘erotic’ gestures on stage seemed designed to corrupt the most demure of teenagers. When reviewing an overseas Elvis concert, Perth’s Daily News complained that his performance was a ‘frantic sex show’, and under the headline 'Filth [and] eroticism’, the same newspaper a week later advocated that Presley’s records should be banned (Perth Daily News, 14 November 1957).

In the latter half of the 1950s, concerns that Australia’s teenagers, and especially working-class teenagers, were becoming delinquent reached a crescendo. Law-abiding citizens observed with concern
bodgies (male) and widgies (female) congregating in milk bars and on street corners. Violence and sexual license were their hallmarks, they believed, with alarmist and sensationalist media reports having established and fuelled these understandings. Parental alcohol consumption and gambling, lack of discipline, high wages and youthful access to unsuitable comics, horror picture shows, and after 1956, rock and roll music were among the factors that generated delinquency, they suggested. Their views, popularized by sensational press reports, contributed to a ‘moral panic’ throughout the Australian
community.”


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Bodgies and widgies - obviously performing a satanic rite - they had no shame!!!

I highly recommend reading this report – it’s a time capsule into the cultural changes happening during the 1950s – and there were BIG CHANGES happening!!!! One item in the report I intend to write another post about is the banning of comics – but that’s for another time!!!!

Australia was gearing up for the 1956 Melbourne Olympic games and these were the first Olympics to be boycotted - the Netherlands, Spain, and Switzerland, boycotted the games because of the repression of the Hungarian Uprising by the Soviet Union - Cambodia, Egypt, Iraq, and Lebanon boycotted the games due to the Suez Crisis.

The Olympic games were one of the driving forces behind the introduction of television into Australia in 1956 – it brought the world into people’s living rooms –people were mesmerized and amazed by it – the population was addicted!!!!

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The 50s were a major turning point in our Australian identity - the Australian lifestyle and culture were changed forever. I was 5 years old going into the 60s and what an education I was in for - the Vietnam war, sex'n'drugs'n'rock'n'roll, women's liberation and a whole lot more!!!!


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