a mother's love...

the move is on this coming sunday, so i'm busy sorting, packing and discarding, etc. etc... i thought i'd just 'do' a quick post and share this article on a mother's love - as 'mother's day' was celebrated yesterday i think this is fitting...

"A Bovine Sophie's Choice by Holly Cheever, DVM and vice president of New York State Humane Association.

I would like to tell you a story that is as true as it is heartbreaking. When I first graduated from Cornell’s School of Veterinary Medicine, I went into a busy dairy practice in Cortland County. I became a very popular practitioner due to my gentle handling of the dairy cows. One of my clients called me one day with a puzzling mystery: his Brown Swiss cow, having delivered her fifth calf naturally on pasture the night before, brought the new baby to the barn and was put into the milking line, while her calf was once again removed from her. Her udder, though, was completely empty, and remained so for several days. 

As a new mother, she would normally be producing close to one hundred pounds (12.5 gallons) of milk daily; yet, despite the fact that she was glowing with health, her udder remained empty. She went out to pasture every morning after the first milking, returned for milking in the evening, and again was let out to pasture for the night — this was back in the days when cattle were permitted a modicum of pleasure and natural behaviors in their lives — but never was her udder swollen with the large quantities of milk that are the hallmark of a recently-calved cow.

I was called to check this mystery cow two times during the first week after her delivery and could find no solution to this puzzle. Finally, on the eleventh day post calving, the farmer called me with the solution: he had followed the cow out to her pasture after her morning milking, and discovered the cause: she had delivered twins, and in a bovine’s “Sophie’s Choice,” she had brought one to the farmer and kept one hidden in the woods at the edge of her pasture, so that every day and every night, she stayed with her baby — the first she had been able to nurture FINALLY—and her calf nursed her dry with gusto. Though I pleaded for the farmer to keep her and her bull calf together, she lost this baby, too—off to the hell of the veal crate.

Think for a moment of the complex reasoning this mama exhibited: first, she had memory — memory of her four previous losses, in which bringing her new calf to the barn resulted in her never seeing him/her again (heartbreaking for any mammalian mother). Second, she could formulate and then execute a plan: if bringing a calf to the farmer meant that she would inevitably lose him/her, then she would keep her calf hidden, as deer do, by keeping her baby in the woods lying still till she returned. Third — and I do not know what to make of this myself — instead of hiding both, which would have aroused the farmer’s suspicion (pregnant cow leaves the barn in the evening, unpregnant cow comes back the next morning without offspring), she gave him one and kept one herself. I cannot tell you how she knew to do this—it would seem more likely that a desperate mother would hide both.

All I know is this: there is a lot more going on behind those beautiful eyes than we humans have ever given them credit for, and as a mother who was able to nurse all four of my babies and did not have to suffer the agonies of losing my beloved offspring, I feel her pain." from all-creatures.org

another article well worth a read from the same site is "On Mother's Day, Remember The Cows On Dairy Farms"

or there's this video from evolve campaigns - "The Dairy Cow: The Most Overworked Mother On The Planet" (the video doesn't contain live graphic brutality that is the 'dairy industry' - just plain old facts and truths!!!)

 

i've linked to vegan feminist agitator's post "the universal mother" previously and find it still worth recommending if you haven't read it before...

okay, it's time to get back to work, and by the time i post again i hope to be settled in and enjoying the new house...

ch-ch-ch-changes....

ooooh, blogger's changed its look and feel... takes a while to get used to the new layout etc.... it looks a lot more like google+ now - that makes sense though seeing as how it's a google product... but i was soooo familiar with the way it looked previously when i opened it up - guess i'll get used to it soon enough...

that's when i'm able to get into it! i'm having a helluva time with my internet at the moment... it's dropping out soooo very often, it's driving me crazy - has been for the last couple of months and i find myself abusing telstra more often than normal... but then there has been a lot of new comings and old goings from the flats i live in so maybe there's something new interfering with my signal... hopefully that will change when i move - i may even go with a different provider!!!!

a move? yes, i'll get to that, but... it was my birthday on saturday - turned 57 - and being up early i decided i'd go along for a tram ride into the city with brann while he collected something from his work - what possessed me? i haaaate the city, so many people!! and on my birthday to boot!!! but while there we had a lovely birthday breakfast... then it was off to prahran market to visit mister nice guy cupcakes to get some birthday treats - they make the most incredible cakes, so moist, so delicious - everything is vegan and we bought 18 mini cupcakes in 9 different flavours...

later in the day - and after much self-discipline refraining from getting too stoned and eating too many munchies in the form of cupcakes - it was off to soul mama's in st kilda for dinner - it's a place i can go as a vegan and know i don't have to worry about 'cross-contamination' with rancid, decaying flesh from brutally slaughtered animals - now their food can be pretty bland if you don't know how flavours work with each other, and you do need to get a few things and share, rather than be bored by one dish... so we had japanese gyoza dumplings with a mirin, soy & ginger dipping sauce, thai green laksa noodles with asian vegetables and fried tempeh, and spicy marinated tofu on beautifully cooked asian greens... deeeeeeeelicious - everything just balanced each other perfectly!!! and of course, then it was off home to enjoy some cupcakes - what can i say, between two of us we polished all of them off over 2 days (and didn't even feel sick afterwards)!!!!!

it was a lazy day on sunday... i finished a wonderful book, "the ghost of lily painter" by caitlin davies, which i'll review some other time... on monday, just out of curiosity, i decided to check online and see what houses were available for lease at a price we may be able to afford... i'd noticed one open for inspection on saturday but with all we had to do we didn't get to the property in time to view... it was still showing as available on monday so i decided it was worth a phone call to see if there had been any applications and was pleasantly surprised that i could collect the key and go and view it... fortuitously as it turned out, brann had gone to work on a rostered day off and had rung to see if there was anything he could pick up on his way home - that meant we could both go and view it with no expectation that we would apply... but on viewing it we decided we had nothing to lose by putting in an application...

it's a quaint little 2 bedroom victorian cottage with a wonderful open plan kitchen and dining area with double doors leading out to a great little backyard and we were 'sold' - it would suit 2 adults and 1 cat perfectly, with room for a small rescued dog in the near future (yay, i can feel that dog-shaped hole in my heart getting closer to being filled!!!)

so after working out if we could come up with the money for bond, rent and the move, while paying the next months rent here and giving notice (that would take us up until the end of the lease - what timing!!) we decided to go for it, we had nothing to lose... so the applications went in late monday evening, and we got the phone call on tuesday afternoon - it was ours!!!!!! everything just fell into place...

so my blogging will probably be a tad erratic for the next few weeks while we do the 'hard yakka' now - packing, cleaning, organising utilities, the physical moving.... i'm looking forward to the end result, but not the lead up to getting there...

it's a public holiday here in australia today, being the 25th april - 'anzac day' - so i'll acknowledge all those killed, maimed, mutilated, tortured, abused, injured, psychologically damaged and displaced in wars everywhere - innocent human & non-human animals alike - but if you're at all interested in my views on the day itself, you can read my previous post 'the making of a myth'...

i think that's it for now folks... but how could i call a post 'ch-ch-ch-changes' without leaving you with a clip of david bowie performing it...

 

when work interferes with life...

it's been a busy time at work these last few weeks - busy - huh,  it's actually been quite manic!!!

we've been implementing self-check-out 'kiosks' - yes, even my library is going the way of 'self-serve' - which means new processes and a different way of interacting with patrons... we've also 'gone live' with our new website - finally - it's been a long time in the planning, but we finally got it approved and that's been the bulk of my work, getting the content uploaded and making sure it all works fine, links go where they should, etc. etc...

there's been a lot more front-desk to cover with the inevitable workplace illnesses (of which few have been immune)... stress has taken it's toll too with all the change happening, and we're all physically and mentally drained!... i've been trying to keep the library's kids book club blog updated as well - so i haven't had much inclination to blog when i've been home - i've been content to read other's writings but couldn't be bothered thinking or writing myself... 

i will get back to blogging in earnest soon - pentecostal 'jesus camps' and 'crush videos' are two topics that i intend to write about in detail - but not today... for now i thought i would just share a cute video of edgar's mission farm sanctuary resident polly the pig celebrating her birthday a few days ago...

if you're interested you can meet the residents of edgar's mission here...

debunking the 'human superiority' myth...

thought i'd share this just-released documentary, "the superior human? ... the first documentary to systematically challenge the common human belief that humans are superior to other life forms. The documentary reveals the absurdity of this belief while exploding human bias."... written and directed by samuel mcanallen, featuring gary yourofsky, bernard rollin, richard ryder, and steven best, and dedicated to "2012 Earth April (EA) which includes Earth Day and World Lab Animal Day"...

if you're pressed for time you can watch the 2 minute trailer here - and watch the full feature later!

a sad few days...

i've shed a number of tears these last few days... 

you may remember i introduced you to fudge at the beginning of the year... sadly, her long life journey ended last thursday evening... i didn't get to know her well - just a few short months she had here... it was a terrible thing for the old girl - she was 18-19'ish - to be 'discarded' at such a late stage of her life by those she depended on when she no longer suited their lifestyle... i hope she found some joy and happiness in her few months here... it was a pleasure to have met you girl...

to compound that sadness, it was the 1st anniversary of my old girl allie's death on saturday... i miss you so much still girl - the feel of you, your beautiful face, your companionship, everything about you...

but my boy shadow helps to ease the pain - and of course, he doesn't mind being an 'only child' - he actually wasn't really impressed when another feline came to stay - he quite liked being the centre of attention - so his life goes back to what it was...

my heart is heavy with sadness at the moment so i won't be writing anymore, but will share louise du toit's tribute to our canine and feline companions with you while i get ready to deal with the other 'old girl' in my life - my mother, whose 83rd birthday is on friday the 30th - so we're off shopping for a present, which entails catching the tram almost right outside the front of her block of flats (luckily), going to target in malvern (just near the tram stop we get off at - luckily), then it's a quick look at some clothes for her before that wears her out, and then it's back to her place...